Vaginal beauty and self-care is having a huge moment right now, between the trends of vaginal steaming , doing pelvic floor exercises with a jade egg , and even labiaplasty procedures to change the look of the vulva. In addition, there are special vaginal massages also known as yoni massages you can get to show your vulva some extra love. But, the goal is not necessarily to score an orgasm. Instead, the aim is a hotter sex life post-treatment, and in some cases, they can be a way to care for yourself by releasing pain and even trauma that you might be holding in the pelvic area. Let these sexologists explain what you need to expect if you go for a yoni massage with a practitioner, and how you can experiment with the practice on your own time. According to tantric tradition, yoni is sanskrit for vulva and translates to "sacred portal" or "sacred cave," says Isis Phoenix, a somatic sexologist who specializes in yoni massage. This massage can also focus on certain erogenous zones , like the breasts.
Can you perform your own yoni massages at home?
Yoni massage, sometimes referred to as yoni massage therapy or vaginal massage, carries many benefits which include stress and anxiety relief, release of negative and stagnant emotions, increased orgasmic potential, increased vitality, improved creativity and a deeper connection to the body. The human body can store unprocessed emotions and over time these unprocessed emotions accumulate and become stagnant. The body keeps a score. This build up of emotions can cause imbalance and can manifest in a variety of health problems including endometriosis , urinary tract infections, sensitivity and pain; professional yoni massage London offered by Mal is a specialist treatment that has helped thousands of women find emotional and physical equilibrium and has helped them overcome health problems and avoid related health issues showing up in their future through the release of emotions. Yoni massage therapy by Mal is part of a holistic tantric bodywork session of which the yoni massage is an important element, but is not the sole focus of the work, the yoni massage is performed to release negative emotions and is a sensitive and respectful treatment that offers women a profound and direct feminine embodied experience capable of creating remarkable transformations in their lives; Yoni massage is a treatment that truly honours a woman and one in which a woman can learn to allow herself to receive, without expectation and learn to trust and fully surrender through sacred touch in a safe and nurturing environment. Yoni massage helps women to release pent up emotions, numbness, pain, stagnant emotions, and creates new healthy patterns and authentic connections with sensuality, sexual energy life force energy , intimacy and healthy revitalization. After a session with Mal, many women explain that they feel honoured in their femininity, unconditionally loved, nourished, fully awakened and whole as a woman. Mal has thousands of testimonials from women whose lives have been transformed through his unique tantric bodywork treatments and yoni massage therapy.
Yoni massage therapy aims to help you feel more comfortable with your body and gain a better understanding of what feels good to you. For some, the slow and purposeful approach may aid in reconnecting with the body and approaching sensuality from a place of positivity. Yoni massage can be extremely stimulating. The practice focuses on several sensitive areas, including the breasts and stomach. You may even experience multiple orgasms , especially as you develop your tantric practice. For many people, the practice is more emotional — rather than sexual — in nature. This is a spiritual practice, so your mind comes into play as much as your body. You want to make sure both are ready for the experience. Leave behind any judgments or preconceived ideas of what you will experience.
Amrita is female ejaculation which, according to Mal, contains emotions of sadness, pain and pleasure. He explained a gushing, flowing and spraying vagina is a crying vagina. Like crying from the face, this is beneficial as it releases emotions that are best not left bottled up. My body will then open up and release the traumatic build up of emotions keeping me from experiencing my full potential of pleasure and personal achievement. There are points on the body and in the vagina that hold trauma and during the massage, when these points are touched, I may feel sad, cry, experience fear, have an orgasm or feel pain, he told me. It was my job to embrace everything so emotions may be released. I was asked to communicate when I felt pain, so maybe I was in control during this experience after all. When I do like something to make loud moans of pleasure. Focusing on the negative will only hold yourself back from fully letting go and embracing this world and the wonderful people, places, and things in it.